If I had a dollar for every time I heard a girl tell me that, I’d have exactly three times how many dollars as I do now and maybe another 2000 women would be free liberated from their doubts and fears.
But you’re just not quite ready
It’s really busy right now at work,
you’re going on holidays,
it will be a better time later,
some time in the future
when your partner gives you permission.
As sad as it makes me to hear those stories it doesn’t surprise me.
Because after all the times you have told yourself that you’re not enough, it’s no wonder that you won’t pay the price to be what you truly want to be.
Your not really worth it.
To finally have the body you want
with the thoughts you choose
and the emotions that you want to feel.
“What are you talking about Hattie”
“It’s just that I’m too busy”
“I just can’t afford it right now”
After all time and money is what people commit to things they value.
What have you been focused on?
What do you value?
Do you value yourself?
You have focused on the story that you are not enough
all the reasons that you’re not worth it.
You have told yourself so many times that your not determined enough,
that your not disciplined enough,
that your not strong enough
your not pretty enough
you don’t know enough
you don’t have enough time
that your body is just not good enough.
You’re special fucked and you’re definitely NOT someone who
is worth spending the money on
spending the time on
or expending the focus on.
Much better to devote that to
or your partner
or your kids
or your work
or your family
after all no one likes selfish bitches.
It’s a fate worse than death.
But what if
just what if
What if you got a better relationship out of it
because your lover felt eternity,
felt your feminine energy to fall into
instead of an emotional hole to fill up?
What if your ideas were taken seriously at work
because your colleagues could feel the certainty that you radiate, a certainty that extends through your thoughts, words and action and into their belief in you?
What if your family was drawn to your strength
drawn to your inspiration
rather than just being drawn by your service.
What if the love and connection from those around you reflected the love you feel for yourself
and the deep connection between your values your beliefs
and the life you are ACTUALLY living.
Well do you?
Because It all starts from you valuing yourself.
So when I call you up to talk to you about The Sports Model Project don’t tell me that you can’t afford it.
Don’t tell me that you want to start later (never)
Don’t tell me that you need to ask your partners permission.
Instead tell me the truth.
More importantly, make sure you start telling yourself the truth too. It’s the first step to making a big change.
”Hattie I don’t value myself enough to do this”
I totally get it
It nearly killed me and my first step was recognition.
But that might not be your story.
If YOU ARE ready to inspire your family
If YOU ARE ready to fill yourself with love and connection
If YOU ARE ready for the next level
If you’re ready to start valuing yourself.
I want to guide you on that journey.
The Sports Model Project Is not just having a bumper sticker with positive affirmations, It’s not just posting motivational quotes on Instagram.
It’s confronting head on the beliefs that have stopped you so far
It's committing yourself to a life of discipline and excellence
It’s you deciding to live in a beautiful state.
It’s doing the fucking work.
You can apply for my Sports Model Project here.
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